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French Reflexive Verbs (past tense)

In the passé composé, pronominal verbs always use être: Je me suis levé(e). The reflexive pronoun goes before être, and the past participle usually agrees with the subject, except when a direct object noun follows.

  • CEFR A2
  • 8-question quiz
  • 2 exercises
Passé composé: pronoun + être + participle (+ agreement)
  1. se lever (je, man)→je me suis levéI got up
  2. se lever (je, woman)→je me suis levéeI got up
  3. s'habiller (elle)→elle s'est habilléeshe got dressed
  4. se reposer (nous)→nous nous sommes reposéswe rested
  5. s'amuser (elles)→elles se sont amuséesthey had fun
  6. se laver le visage (elles)→elles se sont lavé le visagethey washed their faces (no agreement)

In le passé composé tense, pronominal verbs are always conjugated with the auxiliary verb être, which you have already learned. The reflexive pronoun is placed before the auxiliary verb.

Before you start, make sure you can review what a pronominal verb is (including the three types of pronominal verbs, the meaning of a reflexive pronoun, and how to conjugate them in positive and negative sentences). In this module, we will learn how to conjugate pronominal verbs in the past tense (le passé composé). You may also want to review Le Passé Composé avec Être.

The general rule for conjugating any of the three pronominal verb types in the past tense is as follows:

Affirmative: Subject + reflexive pronoun + Être conjugated for subject in the present tense + past participle + agreement

Negative: Subject + ne + reflexive pronoun + Être conjugated for subject in the present tense + pas + past participle + agreement

The reflexive pronoun becomes a part of the conjugated verb (être), which is why the ne and pas sandwich them together.

Notice how agreement has been added to the formula. Because être is used as the auxiliary verb in the passé composé, we stay consistent with the rule of making the past participle agree with the subject of the sentence in gender and number.

Examples:

  • Hier, elle s’est habillée à 7h du matin. → Yesterday, she got dressed at 7 o’clock in the morning.
  • Il y a deux jours, nous ne nous sommes pas reposés toute la journée → Two days ago, we didn’t rest all day.

When NOT to agree the past participle with être:

There are several instances when agreement is not added to the past participle when a pronominal verb is used in the passé composé. Agreement is not added when the reflexive pronoun acts as the indirect object of the sentence. Below are the most common ways you can determine if a reflexive pronoun is a direct object (add agreement) or indirect object (no agreement).

  • When a reflexive verb is not followed by a noun, the reflexive pronoun is often a direct object. For these verbs, the past participle must agree with the reflexive pronoun. 

Vous vous êtes amusés.

You all had fun.

  • When a preposition and a noun follow a reflexive verb, the reflexive pronoun is usually the direct object. The past participle must agree with that reflexive pronoun. (Exception: with verbs such as se parler, se téléphoner and se dire, se is an indirect object and there is no agreement: ils se sont parlé.)

Les étudiants se sont inquiétés de l’examen.

The students were worried about the test.

  • When only a noun immediately follows the verb, the noun is most likely the direct object. That means the reflexive pronoun is indirect and the past participle does not change its ending with agreement. 

Elles se sont lavé le visage.

They washed their faces.

You will learn more about direct and indirect objects/pronouns in an upcoming module. For now, a good general rule of thumb is to agree the past participle with the subject of the sentence unless the sentence structure falls within one of these three cases. However, mistaking a reflexive pronoun for direct or indirect and incorrectly agreeing the past participle are very small grammatical mistakes. This would rarely inhibit adequate communication with a native French speaker.

Pronominal verbs in the other tenses:

Pronominal verbs can also be used in other tenses we’ve learned so far, like le futur simple. Generally speaking, the formula provided earlier is the standard formula used. Just conjugate the verb in the tense you wish the sentence to be in (in this case, the simple future tense). Always keep the reflexive pronoun before the pronominal verb.

The French Pronominal verbs (sometimes known as reflexive verbs) are conjugated with a reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nous and vous).

Key vocabulary

WordMeaningExample
je me suis levé(e)I got upCe matin, je me suis levée à six heures.
elle s'est habilléeshe got dressedElle s'est habillée en costume pour l'entretien.
nous nous sommes dépêchéswe hurriedNous nous sommes dépêchés pour ne pas rater le train.
ils se sont installésthey settled inIls se sont installés à Bordeaux l'année dernière.
vous vous êtes amusé(e)syou had funVous vous êtes bien amusés à la fête de Noël ?
je ne me suis pas souvenu(e)I didn't rememberJe ne me suis pas souvenu de son nom.
elles se sont lavé les mainsthey washed their hands (no agreement)Elles se sont lavé les mains avant de cuisiner.
ils se sont parléthey talked to each other (no agreement)Les deux directeurs se sont parlé hier.

Practice: French Reflexive Verbs (past tense)

Work through the exercises, then test yourself with the quiz. Learn from your mistakes and try again as often as you like.

Exercises

Add the agreement

Write the past participle with the correct ending (-, -e, -s or -es).

  1. Marie, tu t'es installé______ dans une nouvelle ville… tu es courageuse !

    Marie, you settled in a new city… you're brave!

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    installée

  2. Ils ne se sont pas vu______ jusqu'au 15 octobre.

    They didn't see each other until October 15.

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    vus

  3. Alyssa et Alexis, vous êtes-vous bien entendu______ dans la maison ?

    Alyssa and Alexis (a woman and a man), did you get along in the house?

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    entendus

  4. Hier, elle s'est habillé______ à 7 h.

    Yesterday she got dressed at 7.

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    habillée

  5. Les étudiantes se sont inquiété______ de l'examen.

    The (female) students were worried about the test.

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    inquiétées

  6. Paul et moi, nous nous sommes promené______ au parc.

    Paul and I took a walk in the park.

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    promenés

Conjugate in the passé composé

Write the verb in the passé composé. A body part or object follows, so there is no agreement.

  1. Je ______ les cheveux avec une brosse. (se brosser)

    I brushed my hair with a brush.

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    me suis brossé

  2. Ils ______ la barbe. (se raser)

    They shaved their beards.

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    se sont rasé

  3. Elle ______ les dents. (se brosser)

    She brushed her teeth.

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    s'est brossé

  4. Nous ______ les mains. (se laver)

    We washed our hands.

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    nous sommes lavé

Quiz: 8 questions

1. Which auxiliary do pronominal verbs use in the passé composé?
2. Sophie ______ à six heures. (se réveiller)
3. Make it negative: Nous nous sommes reposés.
4. Elles se sont lavé______ les mains.
5. Marc et Julie se sont ______ au café. (se rencontrer)
6. Where does the reflexive pronoun go in the passé composé?
7. Vous vous êtes ______ ? (s'amuser; a group of women)
8. Which sentence is correct?

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